Order of the Funeral Mass

The following will review how the Funeral Mass unfolds and help as you make choices for the Mass.

INTRODUCTORY RITES

Greeting
The celebrant meets the family/funeral procession at the doors of the church with words of greeting, “The grace and peace of God our Father, who raised Jesus from the dead, be always with you.” We respond, “And also with you”. He continues in prayer while sprinkling the casket with Holy Water. The pall is then placed on the casket.

Entrance Song
As the funeral procession walks down the aisle led by the celebrant the Entrance Song begins.

Invitation to Prayer
After everyone is seated the celebrant asks those present to pray: “My brothers and sisters, we believe”, or similar words.

Collect (Opening Prayer)
The celebrant prays one of several choices of prayers.


LITURGY OF THE WORD

Family members or friends are encouraged to participate in the Liturgy of the Word by assuming readings that are chosen.

First Reading (Old Testament; from the New Testament during Easter season)
A member of the family or another person reads one of the selected Old Testament readings from the Order of Christian Funerals.

Responsorial Psalm (Song of Praise)
When musicians are present, the General Instruction to the Roman Missal (GIRM) requires that the responsorial psalm is sung. 

Second Reading (New Testament)
A member of the family or another person reads one of the selected New Testament readings from the Order of Christian Funerals.

Gospel
The priest celebrant or deacon reads the Gospel from the selections in the Order of Christian Funerals. The Gospel is usually chosen by the family.

Homily
The celebrant often refers to the thoughts that have been provided by family or others that show how the loved one lived out the Christian way and values.

The Universal Prayer (Prayer of the Faithful)
Having been nourished by the divine word, the people pour out their petitions by means of the Universal Prayer for the needs of the whole Church and for the salvation of the whole world. The celebrant himself begins it with a brief introduction, by which he calls upon the faithful to pray. A member of the family then reads each invocation from the ambo to which the assembly responds "Lord, hear our prayer." More than one person may read them. The celebrant concludes with an oration ending with the assembly being seated.


LITURGY OF THE EUCHARIST

Presentation of the Gifts
The family is encouraged to choose family or friends to bring up the gifts. The gifts normally carried up are: bowl of hosts, water and wine.

Lord’s Prayer

Communion
If the family has Eucharistic Ministers it is good to mention that as you meet with the Bereavement Minister.

Song of Farewell (Incensing)
The Song of Farewell is usually sung during the incensing. Hymns such as “Jesus Remember Me” should be chosen as they are easily sung and repeated.

Prayer of Commendation
The priest commends the deceased into the hands of Our Lord. He then prays “In peace let us take our brother/sister to his/her place of rest,” or something similar when the funeral procession will be proceeding to the place of burial.
The casket is prepared by the funeral directors and the procession leaves the church.

Procession to the Place of Committal (Closing Song)
The priest leads the procession out of the church at which time the hymn that the family has chosen is sung. The family follows behind the casket. The pall is removed at the doors of the church.